Bummed

Ok. So I would be lying if I said I was in a good mood right now.

I'll explain, but it might just be rambling and babbling.....

There is this guy that I have known for a long, long time. He recently got out of a very long relationship and started calling me and hanging out with me pretty regularly. I have this "friend" (I use that term loosely). She could not stand that I was hanging out with him so much, and constantly questioned the amount of time him and I spent together. I told her it was nothing more than friends, as he just got out of a pretty long relationship and needed to heal his broken heart before he jumped into another relationship. I value our friendship and the length of time we've known each other and could only hope to get to spend more time with him. I knew she wouldn't let good enough go, and boy was I right.

She was the one who went to Florida with me for vacation (big mistake #1). While we were away he would text and call sporadically, not regularly. But, to me - no big deal right? We're not dating, and heck, we've only really been hanging out for a little more than 2 weeks. She made a huge deal out the fact that he didn't call me regularly and when he did it wasn't anything earth shattering (in her opinion, as I did not share our conversation with her).

I was PMSing on Friday and had one of my lovely migraines. We were sitting at a stop light in Orlando and she was talking to someone on the phone (I later found out it was her boyfriend who does not know the guy I am referring to), out of the blue she says "I'm going to text **** and tell him Ashley needs to get laid". I flew off the handle on her. I haven't told her anything about our friendship to even so much as lead her to belive that there is any sexual tension, or the like involved. I told her that she'd better not do it, and I promptly drove back to where we were staying and drove her ass back to good old NC. She was apologetic all the way home, but I had enough. The entire time we were gone, on a vacation that I funded completely, she was rude and ignorant, and treated me like shit every single chance she got. Can you say ungrateful? I mean, I didn't expect her to kiss my ass, but can I get a little respect??

Anyway, I'm convinced that she has done something. He has pretty much ignored me since I've been back. On Saturday night he went out with some friends, he passed me on Sunday and called me to say "Hey" and acted like everything was fine. After I thought he was acting weird, I called him and asked him if she had called him and told him that she had made some comments about him and I that were inappropriate and he shouldn't believe a word she said. He assured me that she had not and he'd just been busy. On Sunday I had to run by the Fire Departmetn and he was there, but he completely ignored me and acted like I wasn't even there. I didn't talk to him on Monday or Tuesday, or try to contact him.

I was sitting at my desk a few minutes ago, and I sent him a text:

Me: Hey! Where have you been hiding?

Him: Work, and U?

Me: No where. I did get my bike out on Sunday, and I didn't crash! We need to do Mexican again sometime soon.

Him: Yep. We do. I'm going tongiht.

Me: Well. Have Fun.

What was that?!??!???!??

Advice ladies?